Iverson 寫:
Dear Gloria,
I am glad you asked, since Toshi answered "問動模粗脫", I am more than happy to answer another one.
At that monent (I was 12) I felt disappointed, frustrated, and discouraged while heard "問動模粗脫".
Nowadays, I take every opportunity to tell my parents that I reallly appreciate what they have contributed to our family.
They don't spend money on personal hobbies, instead, they encourage us to study abroad without worrying about tuition.
In some ways, my father is my role model.
Sincerely yours,
Iverson
Dear Iverson,
You should try to encourage your parents to enjoy their own life!
When I was a undergraduate student, I studied in Chung-Li. And one of my brothers studied in Hsin-Chu.
To my parents, it seems they lost two kids in a sudden. 'cos my brother and I, we didn't go home often.
Whenever I went back home, they seemed has so much thing to talk to me, you know including too much worry.
At that time I recognized that they need their own life! Not just paying all their attention to kids!
I started encouraging them to climb mountain.
Starting from the local mountain hills near my home, they went climbing almost everyday!
Then they made many friends who like hiking and mountain climbing.
Later on, they started climbing those 百岳.
Up to now, they have visited more than 40 百岳!
So, whenever I went back home, they always told me how much fun they have experienced in the mountain.
Showing me so many beautiful photos they took in the mountain.
You know, I am really so happy for them. 'cos they found something they feel interested in!
They do have their own life! It's not a luxury but a happy & healthy life!
(The side effect is that, they are no longer only paying attention on kids! It's great for me too! haha
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Try it! It's never too late to enjoy the life! ^_^