4/5 (Tue.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

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4/5 (Tue.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

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Why We Hate Who We Hate
http://abravelife.com/why-we-hate-who-we-hate/
(Obvious fact: The “enemies” I describe in this article exclude bullies, abusive people, and violent warlords. They don’t highlight or expose other people’s insecurities, issues, and baggage; they create them.)

“Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to a better understanding of ourselves.” – Carl Jung

I know what some of you are thinking: What do mean, Why do I hate the person I hate? Because she is an annoying jerk, that’s why. Duh.

But hatred is far more complex than that. If you hate someone (as opposed to merely disliking her), it means that you play just as large of a role in the unfolding drama as your enemy does. Which is just no fun to hear but it’s true....
http://abravelife.com/why-we-hate-who-we-hate/

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Session One
Q1. (Brainstorming) (1)What is hate? Please make a quotation of yours about it. (See above.)(2)Make a list of all the hates you can think of, and then give each item a rating based on how painful it is. Share all the hates of your team with us; tell us which hate you hate (or love?) the most, and why.
Q2. Are hate and dislike similar things or totally different? Can you give us some examples to illustrate your idea? Think of a key word to differentiate them.
Q3. Is it OK to hate some people? Do good people always remind themselves not to hate? Is hate a thing that everybody should go without, or is it an innate human nature?
Q4. Do you agree with the author's ideas that "enemies trigger our feelings of inferiority and shame" and "The only way to stop making enemies is to begin making friends with our own imperfection"?


Session Two


Activity: mind mapping
Hopefully, we will draw a "beautiful mind map of hate" on the board with your help. :lol: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mind_map

Q5. Use the list from Q1 to make a hypothetical case for each person at your table. What would you do when you had this "case of hate" from Q1? Do you try not to make enemies of them, ignore them, curse them, or take revenge?
Q6-1. Does President Ma hate President Tsai? Q6-2.Which public figure do you hate the most? Q6-3.Do the media in Taiwan spread hate more than news? If so, Why do they do so?
Q7. Why all the best movies always need an evil, evil, villain that everyone hates and the more evil the more the gloriest hero will come rescue us.

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Agenda:

6:45 ~ 7:00pm Greetings & Free Talk / Ordering Beverage or Meal / Getting Newcomer’s Information
7:00 ~ 7:10pm Opening Remarks / Newcomer’s Self-introduction / Grouping
(Session I)
7:10 ~ 7:40pm Discussion Session (30 mins)
7:40 ~ 7:55pm Summarization (15 mins)
7:55~ 8:05pm Regrouping / Instruction Giving / Taking a 10 Minutes Break (Intermission)
(Session II)
8:15 ~ 8:55pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
8:55 ~ 9:20pm Summarization (25 mins)
9:20 ~ 9:30pm Concluding Remarks/Announcement

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Re: 4/2 (Tue.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

文章 Laura »

Hello Host, :D

May I know that you intended to po

4/2 "Sat." and time "3:45pm" ? :roll: :roll: :roll:
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the worst mistake for one is to abandon oneself,
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Re: 4/2 (Sat.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

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Thank you. Sigh, I'm aging. My senile dementia is getting serious. :cccry:
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Re: 4/5 (Tue.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

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Now this topic is moved to a new date. Please be noted.
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Re: 4/5 (Tue.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

文章 Laura »

I'd like to join :ssmile: , but, anyone can HELP

to confirm that beginning time of meeting(Tue.) "3:45”pm is??? :drink:
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Re: 4/5 (Tue.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

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Hi Rock,

Are we going to hold the meeting in the afternoon? BTW, I am totally fine with the meeting taking place in the afternoon, or better yet, at a refreshing place... such as the 學校咖啡館 that we once visited on one Christmas Eve several years ago (viewtopic.php?f=37&t=3618&p=26711&hilit ... %A8#p26709).
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Re: 4/5 (Tue.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

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Not in the afternoon. It's a Tuesday meeting. I will correct my mistakes again, unless you think an afternoon meeting is better.
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Re: 4/5 (Tue.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

文章 Michael-liu »

Maybe we can discuss about why those terrorists hate Amercicans or Europians so much, and why those pro-Taiwan independence people hate people from China. Do they have insecurities, issues, or baggage in their mind?
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Re: 4/5 (Tue.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

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yeah, baggage is uncountable. :lol:
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Re: 4/5 (Tue.) Why We Hate Who We Hate (Host: Rock)

文章 Iris Wu »

Rock is a thinker. He is surely capable to lead the way in the realm of soul-searching and we definitely have hard time to map his mind. :)

Excellent topics! I had to force myself to dig deeper, "dislike or hate?", are they in my conscious mind or unconscious mind? Do I have a mind map when I dislike/hate a person or a thing? This is a good training for me in contemplation and reflection! :)
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Thank you guys for the passion on the end of the holidays. The attendee list: Luis, Iris, Kooper, Toshi, Tashi, Allisa, Adam (New), Sabrina, Laura, Rock.
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