6/14 (Tue.) What we don't understand about trust (Host:Andy)

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6/14 (Tue.) What we don't understand about trust (Host:Andy)

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This time we are going to discuss about “trust”. Please refer to the link below for information about TED Talks - what we don’t understand about trust.
https://www.ted.com/talks/onora_o_neill ... uage=zh-tw

In the video, Onora O’Neill shows us that our three most common ideas about trust are actually misdirected. To begin with, there has been a great decline in trust. Then, we should have more trust. Finally, we should rebuild trust. She thinks the above three claims are all misconceived.

Regarding the first claim, she believes we seek to place trust in a differentiated way in our real lives. We don't make an assumption that the level of trust that we will have in every instance of a certain type of office-holder or type of person is going to be uniform. The polls are bad guides to the level of trust that actually exists.

Regarding the second claim, she aims to have more trust in the trustworthy but not in the untrustworthy. What matters in the first place in not thrust but trustworthiness.

Regarding the last claim, she thinks trust, in the end, is distinctive because it's given by other people. You can't rebuild what other people give you. You have to give them the basis for giving you their trust.

Session 1:

1. Do you agree that there has been a great decline in trust in government/society? Why?
2. What part does trust play in your relationships with people including your friends, colleagues, and family?
3. What qualities in one's character are needed to regain trust?

Session 2:
http://www.wikihow.com/Determine-if-Som ... rustworthy
http://jeremiekubicek.com/6-things-you- ... trust-you/

1. How much do you trust people? How to know if you can trust someone but not others?
2. How much do people trust you? How do you know if someone trusts you?
3. How do you feel when you are accused of something you didn't do and what would you do?
4. How do you feel when you falsely accused someone of doing something wrong? How do you make amends?

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Agenda:
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7:00 ~ 7:10pm Opening Remarks / Newcomer’s Self-introduction / Grouping
(Session I)
7:10 ~ 7:50pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
7:50 ~ 8:10pm Summarization (20 mins)
8:10 ~ 8:25pm Regrouping / Instruction Giving / Taking a 10 Minutes Break (Intermission)
(Session II)
8:25 ~ 9:05pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
9:05 ~ 9:25pm Summarization (20 mins)
9:25 ~ 9:30pm Concluding Remarks / Announcements ********************************************************************************************************************************************
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Re: 6/14 (Tue.) What we don't understand about trust (Host:A

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Some quotes about trust:

1. Life is full of fake people. Trust no one.
2. Trust is like an eraser it gets smaller and smaller after every mistake.
3. Trust takes years to build, seconds to break, and forever to repair.
4. Trust isn't given, it's earned.
5. Trust gets you killed, love gets you hurt and being real gets you hated.
6. I trusted you but now your words mean nothing to me, because your actions spoke the truth
7. If you suspect a man, don't employ him, and if you employ him, don't suspect him.
8. People trust their ears less than their eyes.
9. Put not your trust in money, but put your money in trust.
10. Love is about trust

Reference: http://www.picturequotes.com/trust-quotes/
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Thanks for coming on such a rainy day.

Attendee:
Iris, Sharon, Tashi (speaker), Carrie, Andre's (speaker), Luis, Shirley Hsu, Ken, Jessica (speaker), Christina
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Trustworthy vs. Reliable

If someone is reliable, it means that you can depend on that person. A reliable employee is punctual and does the work that is required of them. A reliable friend won't let you down. Trustworthy is similar in meaning, but also includes an implication of honesty. A trustworthy person is someone you can tell a secret to, or trust them to look after your money.

Trustworthy is used for people but not machines. Trustworthy is used to indicated a moral standard.

You rely on someone - you expect that person will do what you agreed.
You trust someone - he/she is honest, good intentioned, well natured, won't deceive you.
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