11/10(Sat) Insecurity &Give money to beggars(Host: Momo)

11/10(Sat) Insecurity &Give money to beggars(Host: Momo)

文章momoliu » 週二 11月 06, 2018 10:10 pm

Hi everyone,
I will be the host on 11/10. Welcome to the meeting and discuss these two topics.

Session I Insecurity
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog ... curity?amp

The 6 Most Common Causes of Insecurity
1. Genetics
2. Environmental Stressors
3. Fear of Disappointing
4. Conflict Aversion
5. Dependency
6. Broken Trusts

Questions for discussion:
Q1 The article mentioned 6 most common causes of insecurity, do you agree with it?

Q2 Some people would limit actions of their spouse, or peek at their private message. Do you think these behaviors are caused by insecurity? What kind of behavior do you think is insecurity?

Q3 Would you choose a charming womanizer who makes you feel insecure or a boring nerd who can give you the feeling of security?

Session II Give money to beggars
https://www.thenewslens.com/article/26888

Questions for discussion:
Q1 As the article mentioned: You walk on the street in New York City with $10 dollars in your pocket. You can see there is the street vendor who sells hot dog, and on the other side is a drunk beggar. Will you give the ten dollars to these two people? If so, how would you distribute it? why?

Q2 Some people rely on social welfare excessively if they can always get help from others. Do you agree that “Teaching a man how to fish is better than giving him a fish”?

Q3 If you want to help people, do you prefer to give money to beggars on the street or to charity groups?

Q4 For people with disabilities who sell tissue paper and gums on the road, do you think it's a behavior of selling or a behavior of donation?


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Agenda:
3:50 ~ 4:00pm Greetings & Free Talk / Ordering Beverage or Meal / Getting Newcomer’s Information
4:00 ~ 4:20pm Opening Remarks / Newcomer’s Self-introduction / Grouping
(Session I)
4:20 ~ 5:00pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
5:00 ~ 5:20pm Summarization (20 mins)
5:20 ~ 5:30pm Regrouping / Instruction Giving / Taking a 10 Minutes Break (Intermission)
(Session II)
5:30~ 6:10pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
6:10~ 6:30pm Summarization / Concluding Remarks / Announcements(20 mins)
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聚會時間:請準時 4:00 pm 到 ~ 約 6:30 pm 左右結束
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Re: 11/10(Sat) Insecurity &Give money to beggars(Host: Momo)

文章Luis Ko » 週四 11月 08, 2018 1:33 pm

Q4 For people with disabilities who sell tissue paper and gums on the road, do you think it's a behavior of selling or a behavior of donation?


i think it's more like asking for donation. i personally don't like it, when i'm not in the mood. :drink:
i might be a cynic and, a sceptic as well but, i'm definitely not a bad person!!
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Re: 11/10(Sat) Insecurity &Give money to beggars(Host: Momo)

文章Iris Wu » 週六 11月 10, 2018 10:25 am

I think many of us can easily relate our own insecurity to one of the reasons listed in the first article. Conflict aversion is the one fits me well. I am always trying to avoid rocking the boat, so I delude myself in certain conflicts and by “taking them for the group/team”, or sometimes simply just because I don’t know how to “fight back” articulately. Either way it consumes my energy to feel upset later on. Feeling upset, according to the author, is because you gave up who you are at the moment because you were trying to ensure there would be no loss of security.

I like the second tip to becoming more secure: Agency. I do need to learn how not to be emotionally blackmailed because of my fear of conflicts.
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Re: 11/10(Sat) Insecurity &Give money to beggars(Host: Momo)

文章Kooper » 週四 11月 15, 2018 9:59 pm

Attendees(19): Bernie, Christine Hsiu, David Jr., Douglas, Gloria, Iris Wu, Jason Yuan, Joseph Yu, Julian, Kat, Ken, Kooper, Li-yue, Momo, Sally, Stephen Chiu, Steve Cheng, Tashi, Wu (newcomer)
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