Hello, everyone. This is Gloria. It's my honor and pleasure to host again.
According to Wikipedia, "Work spouse" is a phrase, mostly in American English, referring to a co-worker, usually of the opposite sex, with whom one shares a special relationship, having bonds similar to those of a marriage. A work spouse may not just be a co-worker, but can also be someone in a similar field who the individual works closely with from a partnering company. A "work spouse" is also referred to as "workplace spouse", "work wife", or "office husband", "work husband", or "wusband".
This phrase 'work spouse' is still new to Taiwanese.
I think it would be a very interesting topic for us. Let's explore more about it.
Welcome to the meeting and enjoy the quality company of good friends.
Please choose one of the links below to read or watch.
1.Having a work spouse makes you happier
http://www.bbc.com/capital/story/20161106-having-a-work-spouse-makes-you-happier
2.Here's Why You Should Have A Work Spouse (4 min)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JTsHTnWgkdk
Optional references
Wikipedea---Work spouse
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Work_spouse
Questions for discussion
session 1
1.Please describe the work-spouse-related phenomenon in your work place. Do you think it acceptable in our society here in Taiwan or other Asian countries? Why?
2.What are the pros and cons of having a work spouse?
3.Do you want a work spouse in your work place? Male or female? Why or why not? If you do, please describe their personality and what benefits you want from them.
4.How to maintain the relationship with your work spouse and get the most out of it?
5. What’s the difference between having a work spouse, an affair, and a work ally?
Session 2
6.Where is the line you think we should never cross with work spouse, why? And how do you draw the line?
(Teasing/ flirting/working overtime overnight with them/ drinking overnight with them/sharing intimacy/sharing details of your personal life you would not even share with your family members and friends/emotional infidelity/showing vulnerability with them which we dare not to share in front of your real spouse/participating in each other’s family events….)
7.Can you accept that your real spouse has a work spouse? Why? Under what conditions can you more accept that?
8.From the aspect of a real spouse, what’s the biggest insecurity about work spouse? How can they overcome it?
9.In the survey, only two people said they had romantic relationship with their work spouse. Do you believe it? What are the possible explanations for the low number?
10.Given the fact that people spend at least 8 hours a day in the workplace and moral issues aside, do you agree that people have two real spouses, one in the office and the other at home? Please explain your reasons.
Bonus question
*After today’s discussion, will you look for a work spouse and support the concept in the near future?
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Agenda:
3:50 ~ 4:00pm Greetings & Free Talk / Ordering Beverage or Meal / Getting Newcomer’s Information
4:00 ~ 4:20pm Opening Remarks / Newcomer’s Self-introduction / Grouping
(Session I)
4:20 ~ 5:00pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
5:00 ~ 5:20pm Summarization (20 mins)
5:20 ~ 5:30pm Regrouping / Instruction Giving / Taking a 10 Minutes Break (Intermission)
(Session II)
5:30~ 6:10pm Discussion Session (40 mins)
6:10~ 6:30pm Summarization / Concluding Remarks / Announcements(20 mins)
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