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11/18 (Tue.) The riddle of experience vs. memory (Host: Rock)

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The riddle of experience vs. memory


https://www.ted.com/talks/daniel_kahnem ... transcript

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OK啦 💕 I’ll make it fun and balanced for two 45-minute sessions — light humor included to keep the conversation lively while still deep! Here’s your **two-session discussion plan** for *Daniel Kahneman’s “The Riddle of Experience vs. Memory.”*

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## 🌼 **Session 1 – Two Selves, One Confused Human**

### 🎙️ **Opening**

Welcome to the first round of our happiness detective work! 🕵️‍♀️
Daniel Kahneman says we all have *two selves* living in the same body — one that *feels*, and one that *keeps score*. It’s like having a foodie who just wants dessert and an accountant who keeps track of calories. Let’s find out which one runs your life! 🍰📊

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### 💬 **Discussion Questions**

1. **The Split Personality Test**
Have you ever had an experience that felt awful in the moment but became a “great story” later? (Like that disastrous trip that’s now your favorite travel tale?) Which self won — the one who suffered or the one who bragged later?

2. **Memory the Drama Queen**
Kahneman says our remembering self is a *storyteller*. Do you think your memory is an honest journalist or a screenwriter who likes plot twists? 🎬

3. **Pain, Glory, and Colonoscopies**
He found patients judged pain mostly by how it *ended*, not how long it lasted. Why do you think our brains do that? Would you rather have a short, sharp pain or a long, gentle one that ends well?

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### 🌸 **Session 1 Closing Thought**

So… if your life were a movie, who’s directing it — the one *living the scenes* or the one *editing the highlights reel*? 🎥✨

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## 🌈 **Session 2 – The Tyranny of the Remembering Self**

### 🎙️ **Opening**

Welcome back! Ready to argue with yourself again? 😜
This time, we’ll look at how money, memories, and mental illusions mess with our happiness — and maybe figure out how to stop letting our remembering self boss us around.

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### 💬 **Discussion Questions**

4. **Vacation Amnesia Challenge**
Suppose you could take the most amazing vacation ever… but you’d forget everything afterward. Would you still go? What does your choice say about which self — the experiencer or the rememberer — you serve? 🏝️💭

5. **Money Can Buy Wi-Fi, Not Joy**
Kahneman’s research says after around $60,000 a year, more money doesn’t increase daily happiness. Do you agree? Or are you pretty sure your *experiencing self* would smile wider in business class? 😏✈️

6. Can you apply this idea to your life and make it better? Please think of an example and share with us.

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### 🌸 **Session 2 Closing Thought**

Kahneman says, “We don’t choose between experiences — we choose between *memories* of experiences.”
So next time you chase happiness, ask yourself: are you *living the moment* or *collecting material for future nostalgia*? 💕

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Agenda:
6:45 ~ 7:00pm Greetings & Free Talk / Ordering Beverage or Meal / Getting Newcomer’s Information
7:00 ~ 7:10pm Opening Remarks / Newcomer’s Self-introduction / Grouping
(Session I)
7:10 ~ 7:45pm Discussion Session (35 mins)
7:45 ~ 8:00pm Summarization (15 mins)
8:00 ~ 8:05pm Regrouping / Instruction Giving / Taking a 5 Minutes Break (Intermission)
(Session II)
8:05 ~ 8:40pm Discussion Session (35 mins)
8:40 ~ 8:55pm Summarization (15 mins)
8:55 ~ 9:00pm Concluding Remarks / Announcements


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